Retroactive Selfies: Hidden Snapshots, Open Wounds

“Keeping up with the out-of-date” am I? Well, sometimes the motto I chose for this journal hits home like a slap in the face.  Not a knock-out punch, mind.  Just the kind of cuff that crimsons the cheek all the more because it is unnervingly public.  Now, I am not slap-happy.  If I keep going way back for more and go on reflecting at length on the ostensibly passé that others could care less about it is because, to my mind, time is not of the essence.  That lingering tingle is, and I sting easily.

Whether or not we engage with it, there is no out-of-date as long as our memory serves.  Or, rather, it dictates, like a fingerpost redirecting us into the remotest regions of our mental landscape.  When it comes to our past, it matters little how long ago an experience dates back or however long in the tooth we are getting.  The past can still get at us, provided we are fortunate enough—if indeed we feel quite so appreciative—to have faculties that keep us from letting bygones be … well, you know the rest.

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